No control

so now people have something to say about me?!
i've always been the good girl; or atleast the girl who never got caught.

have you ever heard someone say "you can be anything you want to be" or how about this one "you choose who you are/become in life" now i never considered those to be my modos but i deffinately considered to abide by and believe in them at times....

until just recently when i realized in many ways you have no control over what you are or who you become or at least in the eyes of others. people are going to look at you how they please, say what they want about you, and establish their own opinions (no matter how ignorant their assumptions may be).